We tend to perceive negative energy as something other people have.
Sure, sometimes we feel negative – as in, “go away and leave me alone,
world!” but did you know that negativity can be so ingrained in you that
it goes unnoticed?
That’s because negativity sometimes wears a disguise called
‘reality’. It’s easy to rationalize that you’re ‘just being realistic’
in not daring to act on a dream – and believe it!
You may assume that positive people are not being realistic – that
they’re being naive, that they are in denial with their heads stuck in
the sand, that they put on fake smiles in the face of difficulty and so
forth. But are they really happy idiots or is there something to their
positivity?
Consider this: since when does ‘being realistic’ necessarily mean that things will go wrong and that you have to accept that as the truth?
That doesn’t mean that being realistic is automatically negative.
When you view the world from a ‘realistic’ standpoint, you can’t help
but be negative IF your version of reality is negative.
If your version of reality is negative, you are conditioned to
believe that whatever can go wrong, will go wrong and whatever can go
right, will probably go wrong too. Your unconsciously held beliefs make you into a negative person without your being aware of it!
So – if this negativity is so ingrained in you that you don’t notice
it, how do you determine whether you’re stuck in a cloud of negative
energy that is attracting the wrong people, wrong situations and wrong
feelings? And how can you be sure you’re not perpetuating that
negativity?
Believing that things happen to you puts you in the role of victim;
then it’s easy to be negative because it’s convenient to give up that
power. So consider this alternative: who or what is to blame when GOOD things happen to you? Do
you acknowledge that you are responsible for the good things – as in,
you worked hard, you earned it, etc… but blame external events or other
people for your failures? So how come, when good things happen, they are
a result of what you do, but when bad things happen, they are not your
fault?
Nobody likes to hear that. It takes courage to accept that you create your life experience!
To clear your negative energy and
raise your vibration, you will need to retrain yourself to choose a positive attitude.
Here’s another interesting idea to consider: have you noticed that
positive people seem to get what they want out of life, and even if
things don’t go their way, they still enjoy their lives… while negative
people whine and moan about their misfortunes and even the good things
in their lives?
To clear negative energy, try this 3 -step process:
1. Take ownership: “When you think everything is someone
else’s fault, you will suffer a lot. When you realize that everything
springs only from yourself, you will learn both peace and joy.” – the Dalai Lama
2. Cancel negative thoughts and replace them with positive thoughts. This
takes practice, dedication and making a decision to see the world
through the eyes of “what can go right” instead of “what can go wrong.”
You’ll have to catch yourself anytime you are acting out or speaking out
your negativity, and immediately change your tune.
3. Use the Love or Above Spiritual Toolkit to clear your
energy and bring more light and love into your life; visualize the
positive instead of getting sucked into negativity; overcome past
conditioning; think intuitively from the soul instead from ‘reality’;
create a new, desired reality in your imagination and manifest it in the
outer world. Nobody wants negative energy to permeate their lives,
yet many of us allow it. But we allow it unconsciously, based on past
conditioning that suggests an inevitable outcome to certain situations. When
you overcome that conditioning and realize that the future is NOT cast
in stone but that you have more control over your circumstances than you
believe – then you can begin to consciously design your life.
What’s going to happen then? Your positive energy will magnetically
attract what you consider to be good and right for you: people,
situations, things… and you’ll notice a huge, huge increase in your
happiness and inner peace.
Why not choose positive energy? Make some changes within, and you’ll quickly see positive changes in your life. Enjoy the good feelings and abundance!
